Tips on How to Be Present in a Relationship

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Self-care regimen

It’s crucial to ensure that you engage in regular self-care. In this way, you can consciously give attention to another person. Journaling is an ideal method for self-assessment.

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Develop a space for meditation/mindfulness

The practice of mindfulness or meditation can take on varied forms, but each means to put you in a space where you’re present in the moment with no distractions,

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Set boundaries within the partnership

Whether in a marriage or dating, being present in a relationship is the basis for a healthy situation. One manner of achieving that is by setting boundaries.

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Texting isn’t off-limits

In a sense, this is an act of being present virtually because you need to be conscious about the content you send, so it prepares the other person for an evening of “presence.”

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Dress for the occasion

Sometimes a night spent in a t-shirt and sweats, just lounging on the couch with some hot cocoa, is comforting while you have an in-depth conversation.

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Tell each other secrets

Make sure that your partner is the first person you confide any information to, whether it be a reaction to something, an update on a life event, or divulging opinions and secrets you share with no one else.

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Schedule time to swap critiques

That can not only give you an evening of enlightening conversation, but it has the potential for giving each of you new interests, possibly new hobbies, and the likelihood for some excursions.

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Don’t forget to listen

One problem is some will try too hard to be mindful of the moment with someone by asking questions but fail to realize active listening is a skill that needs practice also.

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